I am trying to sell you your own sex life. Please buy it. 

If people FULLY recognized the value of making love, the divorce rate in
this country would be cut in half. Childhood would be happier because
the erotic passion between spouses would take the strain of marital
conflict off kids. Adulthood would be cause for rejoicing because every
year could be viewed as an opportunity to create more affection and
closeness.

 

The last marital generation was ruled by passionless, dysfunctional, codependent, narcissism.  If you crave a joyous, communicative relationship, if happily ever after is truly your goal, you need to re-think your priorities.  Sex is the defining factor in a monogamous relationship.  It is the only thing you cannot do with any one else in your life.  Get good at it.

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